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My bf and I dated for few months .He lived with his Aunt and Uncle. I stopped kissing her butt one day?

and she started hating me. She said I became a liar and etc. She told D {whose 23} to stop dating me. It worked for 3 months. They left him to go see her son in the Army. He had no way to go anywhere and very little food. Well he moved out of the house and in with his Great uncle. This tore the family apart. His Gma was the only one who talked to me besides hiis Dads side. My bf was on the phone with her and she started bashing me. My bfs truck he just got Mon. went to the shop he told her that the guy said he could take it back which he didnt but she was like well why didnt you because Jamie said not to? Then she asked him who was taking care of his checkbook so he said me which both of our names are on it and she was like well you need to get someone else to do that. I am so upset right now I cant sleep. I dont know if the family telling her stuff or what but the day before this she acted like a good friend. Now she is doing this stuff. What action do I take from here? I am so mad. Someone also wrote a $400 check out my bfs old account recently. His so called Aunt and uncle still have that book. His Gma said Derek did it but he closed the account and doesnt have any checks so we know it for sure wasn't Derek. Where should we go on this as well? I am about to write a very nasty letter to everyone but if this case ends up going to court I dont want the letter to come back and haunt us. I would also like to write one to his Gma and tell her not to judge what she is hearing because it is not true and that the only reason Jana hates me is because I stopped kissing her butt. Is this a good idea though? We dont even talk to the Aunt and Uncle anymore and they dont want to talk to us either. They have me so upset though that I am actually sick right now from it. Can I sue for emotional stress or something so I can get money to go talk to someone face to face and get me through this? Also do I now ignore the Grandma who is bashing me? We are now living together he makes a lot more then me and if he didnt stop seein me he got kicked out of the house and at that time had no where to go. Finally the chance came and his uncle told him to go ahead and move on in which he did and he called me right away.

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1. Ignore it and tell your boyfriend to ignore it too. They're just trying to get to you.
2. Maybe you should go back to kissing her butt.
3. Honey your worring about the wrong things. You don't even really know this person and if someone else can tell him to stap seeing you and he does what does that tell you about his own will to make decisions, you've go or had checking accounts with him. Who is making more money you or him. Especially if he does not live with you, or does he now. There are some unanswered questions there.
4. forget him. you are wasting you r time
5. It seems like you are in one very messy horrible situation it can noy be easy on him ether i would say hold back on writing those letters and if you want to talk to his Grandmother then do so personally she will appreciate this much more yet as for everyone else I would just stay out of there way and hopefully they will do the same. idk honestly what to do hear as i have allways got along extreamly well with all my bf's familys yet i never saw it as but kissing ether i suppose you just be polite respectfull and honest and do as much as you can for everyone. Regardless of how angry he may be with them right now they are still his family so that needs to be respected. Really this kinda thing dose not happen for a simple reason there must have been a string of things that lead to this point. Really regerdless of what has gone on they are his family and I may be diff but what ever guy I am with at the time his family and there opionions and wishes are extramly important to me. most times regardless of what any of my past bfs thought about a situation if his mother and father disagreed with something or was unsettled by it I would respect them before my partners or my wishes were considerd, idk my bfs familys have allways held priotity in my life along side him. So why not try and resolve this situation if not only to keep the peace for your bfs sake as this is no way to live there has to be a better way.