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Boyfriends looking at craigslist? What do you think it means?

I looked on my boyfriends computer the other day when he went to class and saw that he went on craigs list and was searching for women seeking men and clicking and even clicked on several different ads posted by girls, mostly sluts. He denies the whole thing and lies to me about watching porn when he does. I have had a feeling he has cheated on me for the past few weeks. I know he needs a lot of attention and a needy person. Especially now that he is living in hollywood an hour away from me i don't see him all the time but i see him every weekend and drive up at least one or two times during the week. I even confronted him about the criags list tihng and he came up with the excuse that he was trying to sell something on it. And he denies looking at the girl adds and ever clicking on them. As well as stopping to watch porn "out of respect for me" when the same night i found downloaded porn from just the other day. I keep telling him the computer history doesn't lie. he claims it does ha

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1. He is just curious.
2. He needs to be your ex-boyfriend. He's lying to you and apparently not dealing well with you two living in separate towns. Let him go his own way and you can go yours and hopefully meet someone who's more honest.
3. he is a BIG FAT LIAR get rid of him
4. your boyfriend's an ass. dump him.
5. Your boyfriend is an idiot who should learn how to clear his cache. I could make the point that craigslist is hilarious just to read. It is funny to see how...desperate some people are. HOWEVER, it does sound like at the very least the boy is keeping something from you. You should rest assured though that if he is looking at porn, he probably doesn't have another regular sexual output (other girls)
6. You're too damn nosy. I would be pissed if you came behind me checking where I had been on the computer. Maybe he was looking for you on there. By the way, tell him the girls looking for girls is much better. The girls show more in there.
7. unless someone has access to his computer then he is the one doing this.... break it off to show him you mean business... what is your reason to snoop through is computer anyway? TRUST is needed here and if there is no trust then you must break it off
8. i think there is a serious trust issue going on here and maybe its time to let him go or have a very serious talk with him but think about what your going to say.. alot of "guys" look at alot porn but only stay with one girl. ;) to see how flexible they can become.(they try to mimic what they see)
9. You need to break up with him. He is clearly looking for "someone better" than you. For some reason he is just not into your relationship anymore. You must have been having problems with him recently? So just break it off and find someone new. Cause he is just going to keep up his sneekyness until he really does cheat on you (unless he has already).
10. Just because he is looking does not mean he is cheating. My man looks at craigslist and views porn daily. Heck, we do it together sometimes. Him watching porn is just to watch porn. He is not hooking up with them. If the craigslist thing really bothers you, then sit down and explain it to him in details. My question to you is why are you looking at his computer history?
11. He is clearly lying about looking at other women's ads on Craigslist. This I would ditch him for. If he is seeking affection elsewhere then you should leave him. When it comes to porn, men pretty much need it. I used to get pissed about my boyfriend was watching it, but now I don't care. EVERY guy I know watches it and you need to accept that whoever you date is going to watch it and if they tell you they don't, they are lying.
12. get rid of him! now!! no good can come from this.
13. If someone posted this and you read it what would you think? If you want confirmation of the obvious, well then here it is: the guy is a lying self-centered jerk and you should leave him, like immediately.
14. Question is why are you still with him?
15. I have been in a similar situation with a guy I dated on and off for 6 years. I think some guys just have to know that there is something else out there, the problem is that sometimes they actually find it. I ddin't have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn, I think its a fantasy thing. But Craigslist is a different problem because the women are actually on the other end. I think you probably need to approach it in this way. You know he was on there and did what you found, it doesn't matter whether or not he is willing to admit to it. The computer history does not lie, and why would it? I know with my guy, I wanted him so badly that I tolerated things from the beginning of our relationship that were wrong and did not work for me. You have to make a choice about whether you are allright with not just the Craigslist or other surfing, but whether you are okay with being with someone that you can't trust to be honest with you. My boyfriend, ex now just broke up with me because he found a girl that he used to know in high school. Well I bet I don't have to tell you where he "found" her. Thats right, on the computer. I can't really even blame her, because god knows she may not even know that I existed. Me and my guy are over. And it is mostly because I just don't want to share him with other people. Of course the moral to this story is, I knew how he was from the begining and I stayed...now I have this huge attachment to him and its for nothing. I hope this helps you and good luck out there.
16. You need to dump him apparently he's not respecting you or being a good boyfriend. And when someone is doing that to you and there your boyfriend. It time to dump him for good.