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Please help??Hubby left leaving apartment almost bare??

My husband and i have been married three and half years.Hubby and i had problems we were trying to start a family for two years because hubby had always wanted a son.I am 24 and he is 32 the age difference caused him to treat me as a child on more than one occasion causing fights.Hubby works in Insurance and travels a lot he cheated on me with someone at work.This caused a seperation he went to london for 2 months for work.I was sad and lonley made a bad choice slept with an ex.bf who called to wish me a happy b-day.He got me pregnant . I told my hubby everything before he came home and he said he wanted to still give our marriage another shot.He was supportive and we started attending therapy i thought we were making progress.I came home a week ago to an almost bare apartment and hubby wont answer cell phone?Credit cards were canceled and joint account emptied. He left our bed ,my clothing, curtains, dog, china and some decorations.I have no idea who to call? I am 38 weeks pregnant.

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1. well what is it that you want us to do about it? you both are dysfunctional and need to get a divorce....especially since the love child will be a constant reminder that you cheated
2. He is a smart cookie. Hire a lawyer. Good luck
3. Contact a woman's shelter; what he's done is abandonment. They might be able to help short-term. Next, contact your family and ... as hateful as the thought might be ... consider moving back home for a while. Or contact your local welfare agency. Even if you have a job, they should help with prenatal care. If you don't have a job, they should be able to help you out with WIC (food assistance), rent and health care. And definitely file for child support from whomever is responsible (I'm assuming the ex-boyfriend). Or consider adoption if you don't want to raise the kid by yourself. And finally, file for divorce...your marriage is definitely over. Good luck.
4. well duh his probably left..well ok..maybe his not left, maybe he is frustrated and wants some time to himself. Wait for a day or two..if you cant anymore, just call his friends or family to see if he might be there or think of places he may have gone, even if its the stupidest place you should check it out.
5. Not cool. You both screwed up... by getting pregnant, you in a BIG way. BUT, you did the adult thing and came clean, then tried to work it out. Hubby gave you hope, then yanked it all away. Sounds like you can't rely on him. You're still pregnant? Do you have family or friends you can rely on for help? The future's about to get tough: you're going to have to make a lot of decisions on your own adn build a new life. But you have it in you, and with help, it'll be easier.
6. Turn around a mother ain't it this is the kind of thing the woman usually does he's a smart man..
7. Get a very good lawyer and find out what is your rights in all this. The very best to you.
8. try calling the boyfriend who knocked u up
9. hire the lawyer he will have to pay everything back to u it was a joint account and he can't just take the money that belongs to u