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Help me out to take a decision on my lover?

Hi all... I've been in love with this guy for more than 2 years. Our love was going smooth and he loved me so much. There have been some little problems which are common among all couples, but now i'm pretty much confused and depressed by him. He is now away from me searching for a job. He focuses much on his career which is good indeed. But the thing is he doesn't give thoughts to my feelings much. Even if i cry for him he reacts less. I really want to marry him. He also says me the same. But what i doubt is will we be happy after getting married?. Sometimes i think of leaving him but I can't because we've been alone sometimes. Hope you understand what i'm trying to say. So even if i leave him i can't live with someone else. It's like betraying others. I am not at all happy these days. I see happy couples everywhere which makes me more sad. Sometimes i feel that i had took a wrong decision. Next moment i curse myself saying that i will never get a man like him with clean habits and behavior.And i must say he has never seen another gal except me. He still loves me so much. There times when he even ignored me completely. Is the problem with me or him? Or is this normal in love?. This is my first love and also his. I constantly think about this which makes me depressed. I really don't know what to do. Guys and gals help me out of this state....

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1. he could be one of those guys who doesnt know how to express love but that doesnt mean he loves u less..its just that he cant demonstrate it...u must hv felt ignored but may b from his point of view he must hv not ignored u or reacted to ur tears...some guys are just like that and u cant change their nature...so u have to acept him the way he is and make ur self mentally stro nger...as u said he is honest in thsi relationship so wat esle do u want..eventually u'll adjust providesd there's love in ur relationship..dont think too much negative n njoy ur love life