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Can anyone in the Chicago area tell me the best way to find a woman for a threesome with my boyfriend and I?

I'm bi-curious and my boyfriend and I have been wanting to have a threesome with another woman, but we've tried craigslist with no luck. 24 to 35 year olds

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1. r u serious!!!????????
2. Usually some Bi girls in lesbian bars/clubs.
3. Having had a few threesomes with my wife of nearly 20 years I would like to share some insight with you. To begin with social networking sites Craigslist is not the best place to look. First reason why it is not a good site there is a good chance that the person responding is not 18. Another reason is social networking sites are not designed for people to to look for threesomes, wife swapping, and the alternative sexual lifestyle. Finally on social networking sites you may get a lot of useless replies from those who 'chicken out' at the last minute due to their plans changing because their spouse has decided to stay home or they get cold feet. Another reason why you are having problems is your age range. A few people interested in having threesomes are under 35 ish but you will find the majority of people wanting threesomes are in their mid 30s - mid 50s. A part of this reason has to do with children finally leaving the home or are old enough to care for themselves unsupervised for several hours. Another reason is some women in this age range go through a sexual awakening where the idea of exploring their sexuality interests them. A final reason as to why you are not finding a girl for your threesome is because for every 1000 single guys interested in having a threesome you may find 1 single bisexual woman and if you are looking for a straight single female your odds are more like for every 10,000 singles guys interested in having a threesome you may find 1 woman. Why is it difficult to find a single woman interested in having a threesome? For some it has to do with social teachings such as 'nice girls' do not have threesomes. However that is not the case in most instances. Most women come to have a threesome through their partner as they generally do not seek them out but become interested once they have one with their partner. This means women who are interested in having a threesome are already in a relationship. So your search is in essence is finding an unattached single female interested in having a threesome and having to compete with the other couples who are also interested in finding a single unattached bisexual female. Where do you look? In Chicago there are swingers clubs to try along with other websites that are geared towards threesomes and swinging. A lot of couples search for the elusive unicorn, single woman, only to give up. You may have to do a lot of searching but you will get lucky just give it time.
4. What you're looking for is commonly referred to a "unicorn" because a bisexual, single woman looking for a one night stand with a couple is just about as common as a unicorn. Now that said, they are out there, you just have to know how and where to find one. Every FMF threesome my wife and I have ever had was with women we met outside the swinger lifestyle. We met them at clubs, or a mundane things like BBQ's at a common friend's house, etc. In all cases though, we weren't technically looking, but found one. The big thing is that we look together though. It's just like dating when you were single, only now you are AND your boyfriend are looking for a girlfriend. Approach it as such and I'll bet you have pretty good success.