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Confusing Girlfriend.?

Well I was looking to buy an i pod touch on crags list and found this one and decided to buy it and it comes to find out this girl I bought the i pod touch off of was really cool so we started talking, only lives 30min away, I really love this girl with all of my heart and we only have been dating little over a month "10-25-08" not enough time to know someone and love them but not this girl, but there is something about this girl that makes me go crazy for her, there are times where I say how much I love her and everything and get her saying how much she loves me and then there are times that it seems like it is just over looked and I just get "I love you to", maybe she can't express her self how she loves me as well as I can I don't know, times where I get a random text from her saying she misses me and then there are times where it seems like I am trying to grab for her attention or get any love out of her, she is a productive girl from what I can see, cheer leading/school and some other stuff and I hope its just a lot of stuff on her hands that cant really give her all the time that I am looking from her, she is really a special girl to me and I can't really see my self with any other girl, I just got a text from her asking if I talk to any of my ex's and how often, did my best as a boyfriend to show her I do love her and reassure her that there is no one else that I want in my life besides her, best analogy I can put to my issue is that it feel like love form her is like a light switch. (Quick note: Sometimes when I try and stare into her eyes she will look for a second and then close them and kiss me, ill try and repeat it little after maybe and then I get the same thing, quick 1sec look and then a kiss.) Appreciate the help. -Paul Nur. Another quick note, was on myspace with her sis just messaging and I told her sis to text her that "I wanted to let her know I love her" and she just happened to come home and she read the message and I asked her if she got a text from her sister like 5-10min latter and she said yea she read the my space message, was it just me or would of it been normal to get a text back "I love yu 2 babe"? or "i love yu"? idk maybe im just crazy. Quick note, suggested path of this relationship? Just coast on thru just assuring her I love her and let time work at it?

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1. she might just think you are moving too fast for her. You have only been dating a month and you are telling her how much you love her and that might make her want to turn away some. Keep assuring her that you are the one for her just not in a creepy way and don't be obsessive and it should work out