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ok...am I just paranoid?

well...Ive been with my b/f for about a year and a half. Its a long distance relationship, and we dont get to see eachother very often. He lives in England, and I live in the US. anyway heres the thing. until recently he spent all the time that we could find together. talking on the phone; playing cards online; etc. we actually met because he was deejaying online radio and he quit because he said he would rather spend the time with me. about a month ago he started deejaying on Sundays again (sundays is the only day off we have guaranteed together) we fought over it several times and he told me that he was going to quit. Instead of quitting he has decided to be a deejay 3 more days a week! (and didnt tell me) secondly, now he is saying that he is going to go and stay his week off with his sister; hes not done this since weve been together. I havent objected to it; I dont want to be an absolute control freak. my question is...is my man cheating on me?

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1. ok woman, one, try confirming this with his sister. if she doesn't know what you are talking about, then girl your "man" is cheating on you. if he is staying with his sis, ask her to keep a eye on him so he doesn't get any ideas on jerking off. good luck. Ta ta, C.R.
2. Any major shift in behavior such as this is a big red flag about cheating. You need to watch him closely and if you continue to feel like this it may be time to cut your losses and move on!
3. get help...that is the most insane thing Ive ever heard. seriously FYI randi may, I don't have any desire to hear your nasty opinions on my serious questions. And yes, your man is cheating on you.