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What does my dreams mean?

I had a rather strange dream. Background first - I am soldier in the British Army 1st Paratroop Regiment, I have been going out with my girlfriend for a year and we are taking our relationship to the next step, moving in and we are having our first child. I got off the phone from her at night and I went to bed because I was tired I had just came back from a patrol. I had a dream about I got home and she stays near the barracks which I get transported to when I return. The Dream I get off the plane home and I meet up with some of my friends, we go and have a catch up and a few drinks at the bar, we're all having a good laugh and then I remember I didn't go visit my girlfriend. I tell them I will meet up with them later, I need to go home and get changed because I am still in my Desert DPM. I get a taxi home but on the way I decied to stop in past her house, I get there I hear music going. I wandered what was going on because she would of told me if she was having a party. I get ot the door and one of her friends awnsers and looks at me confused on who I am. I ask if she is there and they basically tell me to bugger off. I knock again and then barge my way through, she looks at me as if she doesnt reconginze me then she goes and makes out with another guy, I stormed off I then woke up and I was sweating, what does this mean, could anyone help? 1. I am not going to pray to anyone, I do not belieave in anything. The British Army is a good laugh, it's no different to the American army, I met quite alot in the Helemand Province some are a good laugh others are just stupid. I don't know if it is loosing her on my line of duty or not, I have had many close encounters but nothing's actually ever made me dream like this. I just dont know what to do, I want to speak to her about it but she'd probably freak out me or something. Just because I fight in wars doesnt mean I need to belieave in god, I am an atheist, I dont see the point getting down and praying because when it comes to the point where I have got the compound under attack, god's not going to come down and fight this war for me, it's up to me and my men to push forward and take control of the situation. We are the ones who have to fight this war, not god. I only want to know what my dream means.

Public Comments

1. HONESTLY IF YOU PRAY THEN GOD WILL SOON GIVE U THE ANSWER TO UR DREAM THATS ALL I CAN SAY LIFT IT UP IN GOD'S HANDS
2. I don't know but it could be the fear of you losing her when you are away on active duty.
3. uhhh it may mean shes cheatin on but my question would be wats it like serving in the british army and is it different then the us army
4. I think you feel that you may not be good enough for her. These fears are common
5. Maybe you are scared that if you spend to much time away from her and don't put her above your other priorities than your relationship with her will not be a strong when you get home to her. Hope I helped!
6. Your dreams are a reflection of what has happened, what is happening, and what your worst fears are manifested into a dream reality. Dreams can be extremely helpful. Once you learn to be awake in a dream, or aware of whats happening, only then can you benefit from your dreams, nightmares. I speak from experience. A dream is that persons ultimate viewer of there-self.
7. it means whatever you think it means - it all came from your head. it could mean nothing. Dreams dont mean anything unless you think they do. Dreams are just our minds wandering while we sleep. sometimes we have a worry they is manifested in our dream but sometimes they make no sense at all. Well are you worried about losing this girl? so your fears are coming alive while you sleep. some things in the dream may mean something and other things may mean nothing. dont think all dreams have meaning because they do not. sometimes you can eat something that gives you a weird dream. other things are random or come from an image you saw or something you heard from somebody recently and may not even be connected to the main dream. sometimes we see an image or images and within a few days we turn them into a story while we sleep. while we sleep electrical impulses occur randomly. our minds turn them into a story because that's how our minds work. of course tell her about it - it will open the dialogue to talking about your worries and she will know your fears and can reassure you and this may have an effect on how she conducts herself because now she knows how you will feel if she cheats and how upset you will be. honest conversations about how people feel are always good. they are truth and truth always helps us get what we need in the end.
8. dreams sometimes is your mind telling you what you FEAR or what you are ANXIOUS about. It may or may not be true, but it's a part of you worrying about the faithfulness of your girl, Your life is in your hands, don't overreact. Think and act with wisdom on what you should do. Work it out.
9. all of our dreams mean something i just don't know what.
10. You are in the Army and don't believe in God? Then why does it even matter about this girl and this dream?This dream is spiritual in an evil way but I want waist my time telling you the interpretation because you wouldn't believe it any way. So good luck, your going to need it.